on religion

i don't have a lot of strong beliefs i'm actually horrible about waffling on pretty much every subject there are two opinions about. but. i do NOT regard you as a good christian if you are out fucking, having sex, making love whatever you call it before you are married. also drinking, smoking, etc etc etc. does this make me a hypocrite? i certainly have sex, smoke drink take drugs all of the above. but i never claimed to be a good christian or even really a christian anymore. so no. i don't think it does. i have so many friends and acquaintances especially growing up in a mostly white mostly christian suburb of indiana who are so called "faithful" and spiritual. but these people go to churches where religion is made into a game. its probably because i was raised baptist and like it or not (not) the ideals of my church have rubbed off. not enough for ME to change my lifestyle of course hah but enough for me to see that i am living in sin and to make what i feel is a clear judgement that others are as well. katie, my suitemate whom i love to death, is very spiritual etc etc but has had sex with at least 3 guys i know for sure. i don't think it matters if you are in a committed relationship or not, you can't bend your ideals to suit your lifestyle you need to bend your lifestyle to your ideals. to be a good christian. in my opinion. and i'm by no means a good christian. that's just my little rant